Saturday, May 17, 2008

My SA trip- sorry- it's a novel!!!

Dear Family and Friends,

You've been waiting for it, so here it is! I know that some of you think that I go on vacation more than anyone you've ever known before, but you have no idea how much I needed it! Aside from my faith that this is where God wants me, the only reason that I do get by here is because of the breaks that I take. Living cross-culturally is very draining, and working in the medical system adds an extra strain. Taking vacations is one of the things that I can do to stay sane and keep my love and compassion for the people around me!

The retreat
My trip to South Africa was amazing! The first week I attended a retreat for single missionaries. It was held by Missionary Encouragement Trust (MET), an organization that was started with the sole purpose of encouraging missionaries. We were 31 missionaries from all over the world and who serve with many different organizations and in many different countries around the world. It was great to be with others who go through the same types of trials that I do on a regular basis. The fellowship was very sweet and refreshing. The teachings they gave us were on God's covenant. It was amazing! I had heard God's covenant talked about a little, but never in as much detail and with such depth of insight into the Jewish culture that Jesus lived in. I made me want to learn more about Jewish culture and the roots of Christianity.

Aside from that, the location they chose was incredible. Beautiful greenery and flowers everywhere made the facility, Carmel by the Sea, like an oasis! I got 4 new birds just by sitting one afternoon on one of the many benches on one of the many walking paths! It was great! I got the speckled mouse bird, cape white eye, cape robin, and the greater double banded sunbird. Also in that area I was able to see the Knysna lourie which is a very pretty greenish bird with bright red wings and what looks like white eye-liner.

Coal in my eyes
After the retreat I took the Oteniqua Choo-Tjoe, a steam engine locomotive, from George to Mossel Bay. The trip was absolutely beautiful because it started in the country side and ended by travelling along the coast with gorgeous views of the sea. I have some great photos of the engine that you can see on Facebook. There are however, some things about steam trains that I didn't know that made it not quite as romantic of a trip as I had imagined it in my mind! Did you know that as the steam train travels that it spews small pieces of coal back towards the passengers? And that if you have your head sticking out the window to try to get a really great photo that it really hurts to be smacked in the face by these small projectiles? Or that when you have your window open that it will enter the cabin and fill your seat, hair, clothes and bags making you look somewhat like a hobo? Did you know that in the few moments when there is no coal flying that they release the steam from the engine and that then there becomes a shower of water streaming from the engine, which also doesn't feel so great when you're trying to stick your head out the window to get a good photo? I didn't know any of these things at the time, but I do now!!! J

THE SHARKS!!!
Upon my arrival in Mossel Bay, I immediately proceeded (bags and all) not to my hostel, but to Shark Africa, where I had booked to do the cage diving. I thought that I had scheduled to go that afternoon and I wanted to make sure I knew where it was so I wouldn't be late. Well, there weren't enough people signed up for the afternoon, so I had to wait until the next morning. I'm so glad I did! We got out onto the boat and took a tour of the bay including a circle around Seal Island. Seals are the Great White's natural food source so you can always find them together. We went out a ways from the island to set anchor, then they started 'chumming' the waters. This means that they had these little fish that they mashed up and mixed with sea water to make bloody fish soup. They then poured it into the water to attract the sharks. The skipper, either John or Joe (with the strong Afrikaner accent I couldn't quite tell), said that we were lucky because our first shark showed up within 10 minutes. He said sometimes you wait 2 ½ hrs until one shows up. When the first one showed up they threw the bait in, which was a 5 pound block of tuna. They didn't allow it to eat the tuna though, they were just getting it interested. It circled the boat many times each time getting closer to the bait. After it tried to actually eat the bait, they thought that it was interested enough, and they lowered the cage. The shark came back rather quickly after being scared off by the noise, I guess he was hungry!

Now, I thought we were going to be completely submerged with oxygen tanks and would have sharks swimming past us. That wasn't quite the case, but it was amazing anyways. The cage was only 2/3 under water, so that when the skipper saw a shark coming he would tell us to go under and what direction to look. We had on snorkel masks but didn't have snorkels, so we would have to hold our breath when we went under water. They would throw out the bait far from the cage, and then pull it in closer, luring the shark closer until the shark was right next to us. Overall, the skipper said that we saw 8 sharks! The smallest was just over 3 meters and the biggest was over 4 meters. Our first shark was the best. When it came to get the bait, the skipper was able to pull it in really close and the shark ended up completely body slamming the cage as it fought to get the bait off the line! WOW!!! A couple of times the sharks would turn away from the bait and end up with the tip of their noses in the cage with us! It was awesome! I asked if I could pet one, but they said that they didn't want them to get the human scent. I respected that, so I behaved, but it was so tempting!!! Once the shark passed the bait, swam around to the back of the boat, of which I had the perfect view, and tried to bite the motor! I asked the skipper what had just happened and he explained that the sharks have a sensor on their noses for electrical activity, either a heart beat or gill action can activate it, so the shark got confused by the electricity of the motor! I thought it was my own personal show and it was great!

The worst part of the whole experience was how cold it was! Even though we were in the Indian Ocean, which is supposed to be warmer, after just over 2 hours in the water I was a popsicle! I couldn't get out of the water, while standing as high up on the cage as I could get, they had to pull me over the edge of the boat. Then they had to take the wetsuit off of me because I couldn't do it! The second worst part of it was the fish parts. They kept chumming the waters, even after we were in it, so that we were floating around in fish pieces and oil. It was smelly and gross! The skipper joked about us having shiny hair and healthy kin for the rest of the week, but I didn't think it was that funny! J After we got out of the water I couldn't bring my hands near my face because I smelled so bad like fish! Even after 2 showers, when I met up with Lauren, Janeen and Fiona, Lauren's cousin who travelled with us, they still thought that I smelled a little! YUCK!!!

After Wilderness
After meeting up with the ladies, we went to Wilderness, which is just the other side of Victoria Bay where the retreat was. It was incredibly beautiful! We had several great meals, but the best was at Serendipity. It was not just a meal, it was a fine dining experience! I can't even begin to describe how good it was! When we arrived they ushered us into a fire side lounge and the owner introduced the night's menu to us. After talking to us for a while he showed us to the dining room and we started our meal of indulgence. Everything was amazing, but I think the dessert was the best. I don't usually like chocolate and mint together, but it tasted just like an Andes mint! It was so good!! One of our days we travelled to Knysna where they have this place where a few rivers come together and meet the sea. It was stunning in it's beauty! The photos absolutely do not do it justice! After Wilderness we made our way to Franschoek (French Corner in Afrikans), where we stayed with a really sweet couple that were on staff at the retreat. Johnny & Deleste have served as missionaries to the Ukraine for many years and are based out of Franshoek. When they found out that us girls were travelling through their town, they invited us to stay with them. It was so wonderful to stay in a real home and have their warm hospitality and fellowship. They treated us like princesses the whole time we were there! After that we had one night in Stellenbosch then it was time to head back home. It was too expensive to fly, so I took the bus. It was a 20 hour ride but I at least had a seat to myself, which was really nice! Then I took the 8 hour taxi ride back up to Rundu. My own bed never felt so nice!!

I hope that I didn't bore you too much with the shark information. It was just so amazing that I could go on talking about it forever! I added a few pictures to Facebook before my computer died, so here is the link.

http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=35798&l=d8c79&id=624739114

I hope you enjoy the pictures! I was going to try to add new ones, but that isn't going to happen anytime soon! I'll let you know when that happens... I hope this finds you all doing well!

love and hugs to all,
kimmie

Praises:
• My trip went extremely well! I enjoyed the scenery, food, and the company!
• Shelley (AUS nurse) and Daryl & Sabrina (CAN pharmacist and his wife) arrived in Windhoek safely. I will travel back up with them on Monday the 26th and they will start at the hospital in early June.
Prayer needs:
• Please remember Sheena as she has her last week here. She is working with the OVC volunteers to teach them about basic first aid and with the kids about hygiene. We will head out together on Wednesday to go to Windhoek then she flies out on Thursday. Since I was gone for over half of her time here it seems like she just got here!
• Please remember Rob & Alisa as they are trying to make the decision about whether or not they will be coming back to Rundu after their home assignment. Their decision effects the future of AIM's ministry in Rundu, so it's a big decision not just for their family but for many others as well.
• Please pray for Kosta Kapewa, one of my nurses in Paediatric Ward who got arrested for beating one of her children. She doesn't have her own children, but she has 5 or 6 orphans that she cares for. One of the girls, a 10 year old, has had some very bad acting out behaviour in the last few years. A few days ago Kosta decided to punish the girl for something she did by spanking her. Kosta dropped something from her pocket and bent down to get it. When she did, the girl attacked her and started biting her. Then Kosta lost her temper and beat the girl. (I don't know how badly) The next day Kosta got arrested and spent the night in jail. She is out now with a pending court date of June 16th. She has asked me to help her write a statement. Please pray for me as I help with this because I don't want to be untruthful in the statement but I also want to help Kosta out. She is one of the most compassionate nurses that I work with and though it wasn't right for her to do that, it would be a shame for something terrible to happen from this (like her having to go to prison and the possibility of her losing her job if that happens).


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Friday, May 16, 2008

FW: computer problems



Dearest Family and Friends,

 

I have not been trying to ignore you!  My computer died just after I sent out the last email and I haven't been able to get internet access.  Right now Mary has been kind enough to let me borrow her laptop, so I will try to get out a few emails today.  I will be going down to Windhoek next week to take my computer in to see if they can fix it or not.  Before it died completely I was able to get almost all of my files off.  I didn't get my music (which is on my iPod) or my emails out of Outlook Express.  I'm hoping that they will be able to get that stuff off in Windhoek.  Thanks to my iPod, I do have my email addresses, but it did mean that I had to go through and type each one!  Yuck!  It was a long day yesterday!  If they can't fix it, I will either buy one in Windhoek (I'm thinking of switching to Apple) or see if one of the Canadians coming in early June would be willing to bring one along.  I can't buy one in Canada, so I would be dependent on the nice office people at AIM to help me out if that becomes the case.  Either way within the next month I should have something!  I always knew that I was addicted to my computer, but now it's really hitting me!  I use it for everything… Music, movies, internet, emails, presentations….  I am so thankful that I was able to get my files off!   So, all of this to say, please be patient with my lack of communication while we figure out what's going on with my computer! 

 

Love and hugs,

Kimmie

 

p.s. please also forgive me if I repeat information in any of my emails.  Usually I look over past emails to make sure that I don't do that but without access to them I am at a loss… And since I did write a few personal emails before it died I don't know who I told some of the information about my trip to and who I didn't…. sorry!



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Sunday, May 4, 2008

before I left..

Greetings!  I'm finally back in Namibia!
 
I had a lot to talk about before I went on my trip, but I just got busy and it never happened.  So I am going to write a few emails instead of one big one.  This email will include those things that I should have written before I left.  Sorry if I am by mistake repeating any stories!
 
Their time has come
Rob & Alisa's time is quickly coming to a close.  The papers needed to take Rachel are coming along nicely, and they are scheduled to leave June 8th.  I try not to think about it much, but I know it's going to be a really hard transition for me!  Please pray for them as they start packing and trying to figure out where God is leading them in their near and distant future.   
 
Lauren and Janeen's time ended on April 11th.  For their going away party they decided that they wanted to have a bonfire and a drum circle!  We invited all the volunteers that they work with at the OVC project as well as friends and colleagues from work and had a grand time!  I have no rhythm, but they tried to teach me the basics of playing the drums!  Then they took the time to go up to Victoria Falls.  After that they toured Namibia for a bit they made their way to South Africa where I joined up with them and we traveled together for 5 days.  But.. more about that in the other email.  :-)
 
I had the pleasure of hosting Hannah, Rebecca and Rachel.  British nursing students who were working in the capital, Windhoek, for a month or so as a part of their schooling.  They had chatted with the two students that I hosted last year and got the idea to come and visit me here in Rundu, so I got them for a week.  They each have different areas that they are interested in practicing, so I was able to place them in different wards in the hospital.  It was a wonderful testimony to the staff to see such hard working students that were so eager to learn!  It was also nice for me to have such eager students! 
 
Other than that, Mary, who has been working out at the college of education teaching teachers for just over a year now, will be leaving in December.  I know it sounds like a long time away, but I know that it will happen in the blink of an eye!
 
At this point, it looks like by January every one else will be gone and I will be here for those last few months on my own.  Of course people decide to come at the shortest notice, so I'm only slightly worried about it!  ;-)
 
New comers
Right now aside from David & McKenzie (did I mention them already?  They're a young married couple from Montana that are living out at and working with the Kaisosi orphans and vulnerable children (OVC) project), we also have Sheena, a nurse from Washington, who is here for a very short 5 weeks.  She is also living out in the community and working with the OVC project.  She is doing some home based care (visiting sick people in the community) and teaching some basic hygiene.  She arrived just 2 days before I went on my trip so I haven't had much time with her, but we are planning on having her shadow me a bit at the hospital as well.
 
Newly arrived (so new that I haven't met them yet) is also the O'Neill family.  They are a family with 3 kids from Canada that are also living out at Kaisosi and working with the project.  They will be staying here for 3 months then they're going to Malawi to help with their friend's orphanage for another month.  I look forward to being 'Auntie Kimmie' to a new set of kiddos!  :-)  I will meet them for the first time later today!
 
Looking ahead
Right now we are awaiting three more people to join our Rundu team.  One is Shelley Jacobs, a newly graduated registered nurse from Australia that will be living with me.  She will also be working in the Pediatric Ward.  She is newly graduated so it will be interesting to see how she adapts to conditions in the hospital.  It might be easier for her since she won't have to un-learn certain things.  Even though I am only in the ward one day a week, I will be working closely with her to get her settled in.  She is supposed to be here for 8 months.  The other two are more Canadians!  :-)  Daryl and Sabrina Neufeld will also be coming for approximately 8 months.  Daryl is a pharmacist and will be following in Lauren and Janeen's footsteps.  I think that he has a very rough time ahead of him, as it wasn't at all easy for Lauren and Janeen in their work situation.  Sabrina is a massage therapist and will be volunteering a few days in the physiotherapy department as well as being involved in the OVC project. 
 
Work
Before I left for the retreat, work was going well.   I really enjoy the teaching and the students have been really great to work with.  The regular staff has been a whole other issue.  Before I left I was asked to teach Neonatal Resuscitation (NRP) to the regular staff.  The Matron (head of nursing) decided to make it mandatory.  I decided that to get the 70 or so nurses to all be able to come to it I should teach it in 3 sessions.  I held 2 before I came.  Anyone want to guess how many showed up?  Only 7!!!  For a mandatory teaching session!!!  I am supposed to teach one more on Tuesday, but I don't know what will happen.  The problem is that there is no accountability.  The Matron made it mandatory, but nothing will happen to the nurses that don't come.  It's really frustrating!  I think that I might make this next one open to the students.  Because there were so many nurses that were supposed to come, I told the students that I wouldn't let them come.  Looking back I think that was silly of me!  :-)  At least they would have come and paid attention!   Monday is a public holiday so I won't be starting until Tuesday.  Please pray that I will respond with grace to the nurses who are so blatantly disobeying the rules, and that I will have wisdom in how to proceed in my teaching sessions. 
 
The Snake
Looking at the pictures and a good animal book, I can now say that it was a stripe-bellied sand snake and that it is not poisonous.  However, in the beginning we weren't willing to take any chances!  Being the strong minded women and Ms Fix-its that we both are, when Anna's kitchen sink stopped being able to turn off, we decided to change it ourselves.  We knew that it meant turning off the water to start with so Anna spent time locating the water meter.  She found it behind her house, half buried with a cover with a few small holes in it.  She went and got her hammer and used the claw edge to open it.  Much to her surprise, when she did open it, there was something staring back at her!  She was much braver than I would have been, she didn't run or scream, she just closed the cover!  She did immediately go out to the front of her house and call the first guy that walked by, which happened to be another teacher.  I got there at this point, where he was getting ready to go out to kill the snake.  I was way too chicken to be standing around when he started getting it out, so I stood around the corner.  It was only after he announced that it was dead that I turned around the corner.  I edged closer and closer, and jumped back when it moved again!  Of course logically I knew that it was just the nerves, but it didn't stop my from wanting to empty my bladder on myself!  Then he kindly buried it so that nothing would try to come and eat it.  I will try to put the pictures online.  It was a pretty snake, but it was still a snake!
 
I am sure that there is a lot that I am forgetting, but those are the highlights that stick out in my mind.  I hope that you are all doing well.  I will be working more on writing the email about my trip tomorrow.  I have it started but I know I won't get it finished tonight.  I will send out an email with the links as soon as I get the pictures uploaded!
 
love and hugs to all!
kimmie
 
 
Kimmie Tibbetts
Serving the people of Namibia at the Rundu State Hospital
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